You know, these things are a bitch to keep up with. I mean, I've been luckier than most when it comes to links staying alive (oh great, not THAT song's going to be going through my head all night!), but still...very few of these links have truly "died" (a couple moved on me, but were reincarnated elsewhere). Updated as of January 10, 2003.
Ambar (no, that's NOT a typo) is smart, a red-head, and incredibly beautiful. It is with a certain smug satisfaction that this site has outlasted "Mirsky's Worst of the Web", which once declared this a "Mirsky's Worst" site.
Started by Sasha Wood several years ago, this one keeps moving, but never seems to die. An excellent size acceptance resource that probably could double as a search link. I actually had to do some serious tracking to update this link...I wound up wandering to Scotland and back (virtually speaking) and found this version, only under 2 years old. Since the original started in '94, it's virtually a dead sea scroll of the internet. You might want to take a look at the list of FAQs here.